Here is an advice column actually worth reading.  Stoya, “writer, thinker, on-screen-sex haver”, writes a monthly sex and relationship column at Refinery 29 where she answers your questions without the sugar coating.  This month she tackles Group Sex and Friends With Benefits.

Here’s an excerpt from the post:

Are real people having group sex these days? I am married with children, and my husband and I have toyed around with the idea. I have no idea where to start or if this could even be a real scenario….what is your experience? Is group sex only for teenagers, porn stars, and “clubs”?
— M

Before you get anywhere near a dating website, swingers’ club, or flirting with people at a bar, you might want to deal with this “real people” concept. Not only is discussing teenagers, porn stars, and patrons of sex clubs as different from “real people” inaccurate and dehumanizing, it can lead to a kind of thinking that might put your own boundaries and emotional health at risk.  (continue reading)

Stoya writes brilliantly on the questions posed by her readers.  If anyone knows what they are talking about, it is Stoya!

Here’s our question to you…Who would you trust more to give you sex advice:  Dr. Phil or Stoya?  Let us know in the comments below.